How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do you enjoy cheating on your spouse? If so, why?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Ask yourself:

How do you find out who your handler is as a targeted individual?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How do so-called Religious/Christian people really think homosexuality is even a sin? That would be nonsense. In fact, LGBT people need love instead of contempt/hatred. The word Homosexual didn't appear until the 1850s.

What I need from you?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why are liberals so bad at grasping alternative facts? For example, if something doesn’t happen the exact same way Trump described it, liberals dismiss it as false; while conservatives are able to fully understand the underlying principle.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What is the reason behind some people wearing trunks instead of speedos when swimming in pools?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Which scene is considered the most difficult to watch in each of Quentin Tarantino's movies?

Hangs out with loser friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why do most people care so much about what others think? Are they afraid of society norms?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What is the most gay experience with your dad?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How do you know if your husband loves you truly and deeply?

Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Is homosexuality an excommunicable offense in Christianity?

Procrastinates a lot.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

That's it for today.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.